Simple Ways To Boost Your Child's Self-Confidence

Your child's confidence is an essential characteristic of healthy child development and will play a crucial role in how they handle challenges throughout life. It also plays a massive role in their overall mental health and well-being and there are many significant ways to boost it. 

The key factor in developing a child's confidence is you, the parent. But, don't worry, it's not a complicated task. There are plenty of effective strategies you can do to start boosting inner self-confidence in your child. 

Celebrate small wins

Understand the power of celebrating everyday wins. Be careful with your choice of words and praise them in the right way to build their self-esteem. Focus on the effort and perseverance, rather than the result. By celebrating their actions, you will encourage their motivation and self-evaluation.

Encourage curiosity

Promote their freedom of thought and knowledge. Throughout your day encourage communication, ask their advice and opinions on specific situations, question the world around them and show them that you value their ideas. It will demonstrate that even adults need help sometimes and that it's okay to ask for it. 

Increase responsibilities

Give them regular age-appropriate tasks at home like emptying the dishwasher, helping with younger siblings and for smaller children, simple things like dressing themselves. Allow them to be independent by making their own decisions and learning about consequences if something goes wrong. It will teach them to problem-solve, which in turn promotes independence. 

Avoid criticism

Mistakes happen, and they need to learn from them. Avoid comparing your child to other siblings, relatives or even friends. By comparing, your child will begin to doubt themselves and will ultimately lose self-confidence. It is also essential you support their interests and encourage them to do the things they enjoy. 

Be a good role model

Children look up to their parents; you are their safe space, and they will model your behaviour. Try to avoid being overly critical. Let them see you in a positive light and talk well about others around you. Model the type of interactions you want to see, give compliments and thank others for their time. 

Make them feel special

And finally, tell them you love them unconditionally. It may sound silly to some, but it is one of the simplest things you can do to boost your child's self-confidence, which is vital for their overall wellbeing. Show them love, physical affection and regularly tell them you are proud of them for the littlest of wins. It will build a foundation for life that is invaluable.

Kellie Kearney

Kellie Kearney is a Dublin mammy of five kids aged newborn right up to nine. She loves coffee, cloth nappies, travel and sharing her every day true to life family moments on Instagram.

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